Two different problems, i will put in two different paragraphs.

John.. I've known this kid since second grade. We've gone out before, and broke up for trivial reasons. l still love the kid, but just found out last night that he no longer has the same feelings for me. This crushed me, causing me to cut. (Yes yes, l know it is wrong, but who cares?) First, how can l get over this?

Secondly, there is this boy Stephen that i'm also in love with. From what l knew, he loved me back. But l found out maybe 10 minutes ago that he is engaged to his friend April, and they're planning on getting married in June... My question is, why did he hide it from me? He knows i'm a big girl.. If he says that he wanted to be with somebody that was closer to him, (he lives in West Virginia, i'm in RI) l would have let him...

The main problem is, nobody else wants to be with me... I am tired of long-distance relationships, and everybody that l like is either gay, in a relationship, or hates me...

Dont wory about others who are not friendly with you your lover might thought that what he has done is a mistake to u and he would have felt ashamed to tell u..thats human nature but u try to be who r close to u...i am also like you only having the same kind of problems...but it became solved when l started spending more time with others

Maybe they hide things from you because they are afraid to hurt you and cause you to start cutting again. People change, and people move on, dust yourself off and keep looking, l am going through a breakup right now and it is hard but time heals all wounds, and those scars are hidden unlike the ones you create on the outside. Take care of yourself first, love yourself, then the rest will fall into place.

Hey,
Is it possible you could talk to a counselor? (either private, through your city is mental health dept, or through school)? Both the cutting and possibly co-dependant behavior are issues you could get help with and the younger you are the easier it is to beat them!

fisrt off you are your own person and what people say or think of you doesnt matter b/c u knw who u are.and love jst wait for it, those who wait receive Great things

First of all, l am sorry that u feel down in the dumps about this.but it will pass :) l know its easier from my end to say so, but its true.
Heartbreaks r a part of life.it will be easier if u try to accept them, & learn something from each one to help make u a stronger person so that when the time is right, the RIGHT one will come along & u will be ur best YOU. Sometimes its difficult to be alone but just know that God has someone specially planned just for YOU & it will happen in the right timing.(not ours most of the time) but He has someone planned soooo amazing for u that u can not even phathom!
l too, am waiting for the right one, now a single Mom but l am enjoying life right now with my daughter. Do not be in a rush, especially if u r young. Do not go looking for the right one.look on bettering yourself so when ur time is ready, it will be OOOBeramazing :) lol.

As far as ur cutting yourself.it is serious & sounds like u need to talk to someone instead of taking it out on yourself. Please feel free to email me if u need someone to talk to. jacksonalleymgt.com

l will be praying for ur situation(s).
Please hang in there.because l know that not everybody hates u :) l am sure its the lonlieness speaking lying & negative thoughts to you.

Sincerely,
A stranger, yet a friend.

Remind yourself that it is John is loss. It is better that u realize this now before u get even more involved with him.
In time u will heal. We all have to deal with being rejected in some way. Be friendly with others. Someone will be interested in u again. This is definitely not worth inflicting permanent scars on ur body.
Stephen may not have realized how much u liked him. Just because he is engaged does not mean u have to totally give up on him. People can change their mind. l hope u will find some one special to share ur life with. Best Wishes.