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Alateixe     Reply with quote
So, im going out with an amazing guy, we have soo much in common, and we get along great, but heres this other guy, stepping up at the plate, and he wants to date me really bad,hes fallen head over heels for me, and l dont know what too do about it, l love both of them equally, but one a little more then the other, and he wants me to break up with my boyfriend for him, and l dont know if im ready for change, l keep thinkiing there might b too much drama for me and the other guy. but l love my boyfriend soo much, along with the other guy, idk, help?!?!?!?
Beert     Reply with quote
The other guy just want what is someone elses. Once he has you he will move on.
Star Rider     Reply with quote
Sometimes it seems tempting to give into ur passions especially when u r flattered by another man pursuing you. The truth is a man that really cares for a woman would not pursue her & confuse her when she is in another relationship. Instead he would respect that & get on with his life. It sounds like guy #2 likes the challenge & wo not be there too long after he gets you.
l say stop talking to guy #2 & let him know u have a boyfriend & he needs to respect that. Enjoy ur boyfriend & tell him that u may need something more from him like more romance or passion. More adventure. We only start to look other places as a subconcious way of telling oursleves we need something more.
Let go of the confusion & strengthen ur current relationship with honesty & love.
User     Reply with quote
l agree with Rob. l also learned in life that you should not leave something that you are happy with.
Coach     Reply with quote
use self controll if u already think there will be drama with this other guy then u r probably right. Try doing somthing different & spare of the moment with ur boyfriend. Get away for a weekend & see if u think u want to be with him. When u think of ur future do u think of ur boyfriend? Do u think u would be happy without him? Relationships can get in ruts but u have to keep working on them. This other guy may seem interesting because u know u can not have him right now. If u have someone that treats u good & u r in love with then u r crazy to drop him to take a chance on someone u already have a bad vibe about.
Kim     Reply with quote
Does the second guy know that u already have a boyfriend? If so, he probably should not be pursuing you. Either he wants to show that he can get what is difficult to obtain & once he suceeds he will forget you, or he really is mad about u & will not be put off by someone else - but is that fair?

Are u sure that u love the first boyfriend? If u do, why would u consider another? Maybe u r not ready for a serious relationship, or maybe there is a problem with the first relationship that u wo not admit. Only u can work it out, but whatever u do, if it is the wrong decision, it is not the end of the world. You will probablty have lots more relationships before u settle down..

Maybe make a list of pros & cons for each boyfriend to help u to decide.
Lostyo     Reply with quote
U should stay with ur current boyfriend because u said that he is amazing, u have a lot in common and u guys get along great. Y mess all of that up for sum1 u think u will have too drama with. Sometimes what u think u want is not always best. l know that from experience
Bobyer     Reply with quote
If you truly loved either you would not have a problem. This should tell you that you have not found the right guy yet! If you really loved your boyfriend, another man would not be able to come between you. Because you feel you love both, you really love neither!
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