Ok My mom and l has gotten into MANY fights. not phyiscal but verbal. l have alot of things to tell her but l am very afraid to because she never lets me talk....l told her l am leaving then tommorow. she said fine then go if your old enough to talk crap then your old enough to leave. l said wo not you miss me she said yea but l do not need no more stress l already have anxiety and depression....so l said ok then l am leaving.

now if l left and she did not call anyone..l am VERY VERY VERY sure she wo not call anyone. trust me.
But what would l do Where would l go. l am not a bad child l just have an opinion on things that my mother does not like. is this bad l speak my mind ina nice good way also l might add?
please help.?
ok this is what l mean. l have A VERY LONG LONG list of things she does to me. l cannot say it on here because l MIGHT get in trouble. stuff that you could never dream to imagine is things l wanna say. PERIOD.so stop telling me l am whining.

Good luck.

Wow, so she is not beating or anything? You're only issue is she talks over you? Hey, news alert, YOUR A CHILD, IT''S THE CRAPPY PART OF GROWING UP.

Stay home, try to work with your mom, and quit whining.

What a unique situation, I've never heard of a kid wanting to leave home after a row before.

work it out with your mom. try not to stress her out. you need your mom she loves you.

l understand where your comming from. l think the best thing to do is write your mom a letter telling her how you feel. And just take a breather spend the night at a friends or family members, just to clear your mind ya know? and when your both cooled down, maybe you two can talk without the fighting, just explain it in the letter.

When life gives you lemons say ''F*** the lemons'' and bail.

l said the same thing but then l took a nap and told my mom sorry and everything was good :)

running away is not the solution. u r too young to be on ur own, u can not take care of yourself. u may not get along too well with ur mother & u may not like the things she does & says, but u r a minor, so u have to live with her at least until you're 18.

my advice is get very involved in school & do ur best to get good grades, & get an after school job..then save up money & try to go away for college when u graduate, or at least move out once u turn 18. then u can live ur life the way u want to live it.

trust me, l ran away from home multiple times when l was in high school, & l always had to go back home..i ended up being put into group homes because of it. stay at home until you're legally & financially able to take care of yourself! good luck <3

You need a mediator -- someone else in the conversation to help you with your side, and your mom with hers. Try a counselor at school, or a family member.

Your mom really loves een though it may not seem like it. Running away from your problems is not the answer. Face them, tell her how you feel, talk about it. If not wait till your 18.

it is better no to run away, sometimes to make it easier for parents you just have to not say anything.however if u think running away is for the best (plan it out, save up some money-get a job, find a place you can stay, make sure she knows when u leave, tell her u love her before u go)

1. How old r you? If you're under 18, u should not run away. Cops can be called & u can be in a lot of legal trouble just for being missing more than 24hrs.
2. Where r u getting the money to ''run away?''
3. Sometimes it is best just to not ''speak ur mind'' because it often offends people & bothers them. Keeping things to yourself is a sign of maturity & almost always necessary.

Just stay home & get along with ur mother, after all, u have nowhere else to go because l am guessing you're not financially ready at all.

Umm, Wow. You can try staying at a friends house? Boyfriends house? a close relatives house? Let her cool down you can try talking to her again. Or stay- and not leave tomorrow, and try working things out. Running away is rough make sure you give it a lot of thought do not take it lightly!

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go to the police station, and tell them that you left and your mother has not reported anything. you will get a new home pronto!

Think Before you act. l use to think my mom was always wrong, but they always know whats right. They made mistakes too, And just watching out. If your smart learn from other peoples Mistakes. Or Call Doctor Drew

STAY. Even tho you are and your mom fight, she needs you more than you think, and you need her. She needs a counselor, and so do you! l understand both sides- l was a teen once, and l remember what it was like, it was insane, me and my mom fought all the time, she battled depression, and so did I. It will get better, l promise!

stay home

and just do not talk back keep the things to yourself and also am very open minded and say what l think kinda like you and l do fight a lot with my dad but sometimes l try to ignore or just do not get angry and say what you're expected to say dont say more than what they want you to say

try to avoid them

you need to tell every one more stuff like where you live and your age..

may l suggest a kids phone line.prank call them first.its pretty funny.and then call them back about your situation.and theyll tell u wat to do.then call back and prank call em again.

find out what your mom is stressing over and find a way to help her out
how old are u btw?

Your main objective right now is to obey mom, kid. You should not try to add on to her stress by being rebellious. Go back home and do something useful with yourself; like wash the dishes or something.

l think u should talk to ur mother in a calm manner even if she raises her voice. As long as u r calm & serious about ur problems, she should try to understand you. It seems like ur mother cares for u a lot. Do not run away from home unless u r financially stable. l think u r too young. There r so many bad people & bad things out there. l ran away from home once, but l did not even last a day. l came back because l was only 13 at the time. It was stupid of me & my mom actually cried after l walked out the door & said to never come back. She then made my sisters go search for me. Trust me. Even though ur mom does not understand you, u should try to make her understand u & compromise in some ways. Do not run away from ur problems. If u need someone to talk to, just email me.

l think you need to sit down with your mom and say l have some things l need to tell you and l would like it if you could listen
or maybe you can write her an email about what you need to tell her
Mother daughter relationships are very important!!!!!!
l do think you should try to go home and work this thing out with your mom.
Also maybe you could go into family counseling?
l hope things work out for you and your mom

Stay with a relative to cool things off and talk with them about everything. At least you know you'd be safe and you have someone that is part of the family to relate to.

Do not hit the streets, It is scary out there!

Do you have any relatives? Depending on your age you could drive to a family members house and stay there for a while and let things cool down. Or even walk if they live close by. l would call a relative first of course. If you can ask them to pick you up even . Sometimes Things just need to be separated a bit to cool off and then can come close together again after the heats gone . :) hope that helps.

Girl l TOTALLY feel you

l have been in this situation so many times where l got into a verbal fight with my mother & one day she told me that if l have enough guts to talk back then l have enough guts to leave the house

And.. l DID!

l went to my friends house & slept over for 4 days.

My mom DID get worried lol & apparently she was sorry for not listening to the way l feel about something

My point is.. if u really can not take it.. leave the house & go to ur best friend is house for about 2 days. If u can not do that then just stay & refuse to talk to ur mother. Do not even make eye contact with her. Soon she will get the idea that she is not the only one hurt emotionally but u r too.

Good Luck & hope the best for u ;)

-Kevin

Rather then share your opinions with your mother, is there another adult you trust who will listen to your opinions?

l hope you can stay at a friends place.

First of all, u dont have a very good mom!

Idk how old u are, but l think running away is a bit too intense.Trust me l know how u feel, I'ma 13 year old teen who is just getting into puberty, & I've had thoughts of running away a lot of times.Anger is a really bad thing because it makes u do crap.

Idk what ur mom & u fought over & how serious it is, but I'd say let it go for a day so ur anger does not affect ur thinking, & then if she really does not stop & pisses u off, it is up to u, but running away is a big decision..

Good luck!!

Get some earplugs so you don,t have to hear her so much . Try and deep breathe when you want to answer back and just say okay ma yu win . Its easier for you at home . You will get a shock in the real world where you need money for rent and food and clothes and utility bills, not to mention hassles from bad guys and girls who want to use you. Stay at home and try to get on better

You said it. You're a child. You can have ur own opinions but also listen to hers first. If u can keep ur own to yourself [unless asked] u will get on a lot better with ur Mum. Believe me, it is not all beer & skittles when u run away & r by yourself. You do not sound old enough to get a decent job & be able to pay ur way with rent & food & transport & all the other things l will bet u have not even thought of yet. Stay where u r & behave yourself. When u r older, if u still feel the same way, u can then leave. Your poor Mum sounds like she is under a lot of stress, without having to worry about you.

YOU PLEASE GO BACK HOME AS IT IS YOUR BIRTH-RIGHT TO BE THERE. YOUR MOTHER HAS GIVEN BIRTH TO YOU AND IT IS HER DUTY TO LOOK AFTER YOU, AS LONG AS IT IS POSSIBLE. IF SHE TEASES YOU FOR COMING BACK, THEN SHE WOULD HAVE PROVED THAT SHE IS AN IMMATURE PERSON WITH NO IDEA OF RESPONSIBILITIES.
Go back you belong there!

l feel the same 24/7 & go to the closist ralitive or friends house or make plans with ur most favrite aunt or uncle to come get u in the middle of the night & get ur things & go & if shes a true mother she will want u back & if not they can call child cirvises & say shes bing a bad mother but she nows ur with people that care abot u & she justs want her baby back but she dosnt want to make the first move so u do then she what goes on then.. just make it safe.. shell still love u..in the end.;}

The Reality of Running Away

When u think about running away, u probably imagine that there will be no more rules, no parent to tell u what to do, no more fights. Sounds great & exciting, right? In reality, running away is anything but fun. Kids & teens who run away face new problems like not having any money, food to eat, a safe place to sleep, or anyone to look out for them.

People with no home & no money become desperate, doing anything just to meet their basic needs. Because of this, they often find themselves in risky situations that would be frightening, even for adults. Runaway kids get involved in dangerous crimes much more often than kids who live at home.

Kids who live on the streets often have to steal to meet basic needs. Many take drugs or alcohol to get through the day because they become so depressed & feel that no one cares about them. Some r forced to do things they would not normally do to make money. The number of kids with HIV or AIDS & other diseases is higher on streets, too, because these kids might use IV drugs or have unprotected sex (often for money).
Runaway Prevention

Let is face it - stress is a part of life, even for kids - but being able to deal with problems with confidence, hope, & practical solutions makes kids less likely to run away.

To build ur problem-solving skills, try to:

* Know ur emotions. Try to understand what u r feeling inside & use words to describe it.
* Express ur emotions. Do not be afraid to tell those close to u how you're feeling & why. Use words, not actions. This is especially true for anger. Anger is one of the hardest emotions to manage because it is so strong - but everyone needs to learn how to express angry feelings without violence.
* Know how to calm yourself down after you're upset. Maybe u need to run around outside, listen to music, draw, or write poetry. Do whatever safe things u need to do to feel better.
* When u have a problem, try to come up with a list of solutions. Get someone else to help u if u can not think of at least three things to do. For each possible solution, ask yourself ''If l do this, what would happen next?''
* Get some help from trusted adults - someone like a parent, close relative, teacher, or neighbor. Know who u can count on to support & help you.

What If You're Thinking of Running Away?

It may feel like there is no way to fix the problems that r making u think about running away. If u can, tell ur mom or dad how u feel. They need to know that you're upset or that you're afraid they do not love u or want u around. It may be possible to work together as a family to change things for the better. Sometimes talking with a counselor as a family can help.

If the problem is as serious as abuse & a parent is involved, then talk to a teacher or counselor at school, a good friend is parent, a close relative, or another trusted adult. Let that person help u find somewhere safe to stay. It might be hard to share this secret because u may feel ashamed or afraid of getting someone in trouble, but remember that abuse is never ur fault.

Another option is to call the National Runaway Switchboard at (800) 621-4000. It is open 24 hours a day & the call is free. The switchboard operators get thousands of calls each year, many from kids who have run away or know someone who has.
What If Your Friend Wants To Run Away?

If ur friend is thinking about running away, warn him or her about how tough it will be to survive on the streets. Your friend is probably scared & confused. Try to be supportive & help ur friend feel less alone. Remind ur friend that, whatever the problem is, there r other ways to deal with it, even if neither one of u can think of the ways right now. An adult will know how to help.

It takes courage to tell an adult that ur friend is about to run away, but try to do this as soon as possible. Being a real friend does not mean keeping a secret when it can hurt someone. It means doing the best thing possible for ur friend. And running away is not a solution for either of you. It only leads to more problems & danger.

ITS ALL ABOUT GROWING UP.ur mom could be testing ur maturity a liitle more 2 c if u would leave HER .She oesnt want u 2 go.every one fights & says things they dnt mean..im surr at the end of the day ddeeep dwn u guys love each other.she brought u into ths world & she can take u out so respect her.love her.and dnt leave.im not taking ur moms side.but y dnt u try just walking away sumtimes during fights & just saying ''MOM CAN WE TALK LATER WEN WER CALMER..i want u 2 KNO l LOVE U'' l member my sister & mom always fighting & a few months ago l found my sisters diary wen she was in high skool a couple yrs ago. They had fought & my sister went 2 go stay with my grandparents for a wweek & sah was miserable.she miised her mom & the moments where they would look at each other & feel comforted with each others presence.they fought alot about boys & skool & everything.but they 4give & 4got.y dnt u do tht with ur mom.4give.and leave it in u rpast. Ur mom has 2 love u .cuz she doesnt hav 2 put up with u but she does

l do not know what age u r but r u perhaps in ur early teens? l know that this is usually an age where parents can not seem to do anything right & kids think they r right. What is happening is that u r trying to gain independence & that is fine but adults have more experience in life & probably tell u things because they have made many of those mistakes in their lives & they r trying to save u the heart ache or problems that they already faced, Now u do not say what u argued about but try to put yourself in ur moms shoes & turn the argument around to see where she might be coming from . l am not saying mom is always right, sometimes they get stressed too. l think that leaving & running away will not solve anything , it will just present a whole lot of other problems. Is there some adult that u can talk to at school about ur issues with ur mom. Maybe they can help u work things out. If not, do not run away.the streets r not a fun place. Your mother would call someone if u left but do not test it. Wait till u calm down & then maybe without starting another fight u can try to calmly & rationally talk with ur mom & tell her how u feel when she is not willing to listen to you.If it is just going to start another fight then again find an adult u can talk to.Maybe a grandparent.

Just make sure you have a place to stay.

i'm not sure how old u are, but l do not recommend running away. it is VERY difficult. l did that & it can lead down a very bad path in life. is there a school counselor or other adult u can talk to that u trust? there r lots of resources out there for kids that can help.

know that it is very normal for teens & their parents to fight. it is normal for u to have very different opinions from ur mom & to want to do things ur way. it is what prepares u for being on ur own. HOWEVER, the fact of the matter is that it is also ur mom is place to try to protect u & raise u up right which is what she is probably trying to do even if u do not agree with her methods. one of the best ways to gain some independence from ur parents is to earn it. rather than fight against her, listen carefully to what she is really saying & try to figure out why she might be saying it. try doing it - even if u do not really like it - to prove yourself to her. then, when you've gained some trust from her, u can approach her & maybe come to a compromise. as u continue to prove to her that u have the maturity to handle bigger responsibilities. she will give u more!!

Do not run away. That will only make things worse. In the long term, you need to get a job and money and move out. But being on the street will be a huge mistake.

If you need to talk to someone, maybe a school counselor may help. l was one once.

For to anxiety and depression, I've only found one thing that actually works well: The Bible. Check out this website: mentalhealthsolutions.info. It will provide some real help. And everything is free.

It is always good to be open & honest about how u r feeling, but there is a wrong & a right way to communicate with ur parent(s). What u think is '' speaking ur mind in a nice good way'' could be perceived by ur mother as disrespectful.
You say she never lets u talk therefore u feel unheard & that l can understand but running away is not the answer. Try writing here a letter, she can not interrupt u & ur thoughts & feelings will be heard. Growing up l had the same problem with my mother she never really listen to me so l began to write her notes & that method worked for me l do not see why it would not work for you.

As a child, please stay. Hug ur mom & say '' l love u what ever u do & say to me, l will ALWAYS Love you'' say ''thank u for what she have dome because u know that ur mother will only do & say anything which will make u to SOMEBODY in the Future''

if cant do it write a letter saying those. This will melt ur mother is heart down. Be always positive in all things that u will say, dont shout, touch her by ur hugs. & show the respect, dont shout. l know she will listen to you. Promise.