Well i'm 16 years old and l really keep to myself, l have friends but l much prefer to do things by myself, rather spend my friday night reading at home compared to going out with friends. Though i'm at the age now that girls are starting to be attracted to me though l do not have much of an intrest in women,i may fantasize but that would be the sum of it. Girls flirt with me which l get angered at but when the sligtest bit of intimacy is present l feel extreme rage, even if intimacy is only mentioned. At one point a woman asked would you like it if you kissed me and l just wanted to beat her but l knew l couldn't, l made fists and became extrememly angered and she got very frightened and left. l have never had any relations with woman before to provoke this behaviour? does anyone have any theories why l may act this way to intimacy?

In my opinion, the lack of contact may have just confused you.

Getting angry at something like that is pretty weird to me, sorry.

To help it out, just think about it. Why does it anger you? Why would not you want to come in contact with a woman? Does that woman anger you by doing something, or wearing something?

Goodluck

- Zain

You definately have an anger problem that needs to be taken care of. Not sure why it is only when it comes to intimacy. You need to talk to your doctor about it. There are some medications that you can be put on to control your rage. They would probably put you on something like seroquel and divalproex

Your bi-polar or homosexual.Might l recommend some ativan or seroquel?

It is possible that u have high levels of testosterone & this is what causes ur anger. There is absolutely nothing wrong with staying home on a Friday night. That is ur choice. However, feeling rage when a girl asks u about intimacy? That is a problem. You may have some unfounded fear or reservations about intimacy that u do not know about. Perhaps u have not found a woman that opens u up & can show u ur feminine side, this is what women do for us. We're supposed to ''melt'' when they slather on that womanly charm. More than likely u will outgrow this. l sure hope so.

Obviously you have a lot of built up anger built up from somewhere. l would seek help and speak to a psyCHOLOGIST. not Psychiatrist, PSYCHOLOGIST...

They can work with you, talk to you, and help you figure out yourself.

You are young, and this is a great age to get these problems addressed so that you can be or stay mentally healthy.

You have persistent anxiety and anger issues. There is not enough information provided to make an assertion as to what is going on.

However, in dealing with anxiety/anger issues, the only thing that really works is the Bible. I'd check out this website: mentalhealthsolutions.info

did you have a healthy relationship w/your mother/female guardian growing up? did any female in any way do something so traumatic to you in the past?